Friday, October 31, 2008
This Old House
Looking back at our time in that house, I am amazed we lived there for as long as we did. It was quite literally on the wrong side of the tracks. I mentioned earlier that we were half a block away from the oil refinery. It was to the south of us. Well a block and a half in the other direction took us to the railroad yard, and a very busy railroad yard it was, too. We could hear trains at almost all times of the day and night. Then about six blocks to the west of us was an ambulance shed. We saw and heard ambulances at least three times a day. Stephen and Annie absolutely loved it. As soon as they would hear a siren, they would run as fast as they could to the nearest window to watch the ambulance go past. If by some chance they missed seeing it, they would cry as if they were never going to see another ambulance again. Our house was next to a very busy street and with traffic comes accidents. The worst I remember happened in the middle of the night one night. Anne was just a baby so my ears were always tuned to listen for her in the night. I guess she was the only thing I would wake up for because I was suddenly surprised to wake up and see James standing at the window and bright red and blue lights flashing on the ceiling. A drunk driver had lost control right near our corner and ended up in our neighbor's tree just kitty-corner from us. If that tree hadn't been there, he would have ended up in our neighbor's kitchen. I had slept through the crash and the sirens.
A few months later we had another exciting experience. I had just put Stephen and Anne down for naps one afternoon when all of a sudden there was a great big boom and all the windows shook. I immediately went to check on the kids and as I was going past the window that faced south I happened to glimpse a huge ball of fire at the top of one of the towers at the oil refinery. Everything turned out fine, but we did end up spending the rest of the day at my friend Heather's house who lived on the other side of town.
We never really knew any of our neighbors there. It kind of bothered me at the time. But I think that was probably all for the best. When Stephen was 3 and Anne was almost 2, Stephen came to me and said, "Come see policeman." So I came to the window and saw not just one policeman but about 20 policemen surrounding my neighbor's house. They were there for about 30 to 45 minutes. Dad was Chief Deputy at the time and the kids had recently seen him in uniform and Annie was positive that he was over there amongst all those policemen. Towards the end of the standoff two of the officers walked across the street towards our house because they had parked their car in the alley behind our house. Anne ran to the back door calling "Pagaw, Pagaw!" (Both Stephen and Annie said "Pagaw" for Grandpa when they were little.) She was so disappointed when they drove away and no Grandpa came. We read in the paper the next day that there had been a meth bust in the house across the street.
I'm afraid it sounds like we hated living there. We really didn't. Yes the location could have been better, but it did have some advantages. We could just sit in our back yard and have perfect seats for the air show put on by the U.S. Air Force Thunderbirds every summer. That was a lot of fun! And we really did love Cheyenne. I never wanted to live in Wyoming. But it was wonderful. Cheyenne really was a pretty nice town (if you could get on the right side of the tracks) and the people there were just awesome. We loved our ward there. It was pretty neat to live in the capital of the state and still only have a population of 50,000 people. I saw the governor shopping in SAM's club one day. He was just getting a few groceries like I was. He's a democrat, by the way. And a member of the NRA. Dave Freudenthal. I think he's still the governor.
Anyway... Sorry to make this such a long post. I guess I'm feeling a little nostalgic tonight. That house we bought and lived in for almost 5 years isn't there anymore. The busy street we lived next to needed to be expanded and our house was in the way. Not that I regret that. It came at the perfect time for us, and we got a really good deal. If the city or county or state ever wants to buy your house, DO IT! They really don't rip you off. And thanks for putting up with my long post. It feels good to have this all typed out.
Thursday, October 30, 2008
Halloween Fun at Home
Stephen thought we needed a picture with something scary in it.
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Election Issues
Why am I so opposed to abortion and why can I not support any candidate who agrees with it? To me the issue of abortion is the most prevalent because it is the most basic. It deals with life. Taxes, health care, and war are really all superficial compared to abortion. If we are not alive, do we really care how prescriptions are paid for, or who is paying more or less taxes than we are, or which country has the most nuclear weapons? Those things become irrelevant.
I am a mother to five beautiful and amazing children. Each time I gave birth I was overwhelmed by the fact that a living, breathing, real person had come from me. This new person had a complex brain that functioned and worked. A heart and lungs. Limbs and fingers and toes that could move. Eyes that could see and ears that could hear. And, in the case of my fourth child, a mouth that could really smile the day she was born. I do not understand how any person can feel like they can deny another person the ability to breathe and see and hear and live. And anyone who will not fight to preserve this most basic need, the need to live, does not deserve to lead our country nor does he deserve my vote.
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
First Grade Fun
Last week Anne got to have her first sleep-over! Sort of. A new family in our ward was about to have their 5th baby and we offered to take their kids when they went to the hospital. Their oldest, Eliza, is Annie's age and they get along really well. The kids came to stay with us on Friday afternoon and spent the night that night. While everyone was supposed to be getting ready for bed I came into the girls' room and found Anne and Eliza doing each other's hair. They played princesses all day and cried when Eliza's dad came to pick the kids up.
Anne got this note from the school counselor. She was very proud of it. So was I.
Sunday, October 26, 2008
The U of I Homecoming Parade
Aren't they good?!?!
Friday, October 24, 2008
Halloween for a Missionary
Thursday, October 23, 2008
Life in the Jungle
What else is going on this week? I've got a box of apples to make into applesauce. We also got a grocery bag full of grapes fom a family in our ward. They have all kinds of stuff growing in their yard! I'm going to attempt to make raisins. We'll see.
James got to help the scouts with their electronics merit badge last night, and had a really good time. They made light sensors and were quite successful. Tonight we have Pack Meeting which is always exciting. They're doing something with paper airplanes.
I got to go to Book Club on Tuesday night and had a wonderful time. We had our biggest turn out ever. There were 11 of us! I think our record up till then had been 8. We read At Home in Mitford by Jan Karon. It is so good! I had already read it twice so it was really fun. I just love going to book club. It is definitely a highlight of my month.
A few days ago Naomi decided, for the 5th time, that she should be done with diapers. Each time has gone a little better and this time is going great. She has stayed dry every night and only had two accidents the whole time! I really hope it sticks this time. I have decided that potty-training just doesn't work until it becomes the will of the child. There's just no way around it.
Thanks for reading my sort of random post. They're mostly just things I want to remember. Hope everyone has a great weekend! We love you!
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Walking
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Millions of Cats
As I said, I love this book about a very old man and a very old woman who are so lonely they decide to get a cat. The old man sets out to find one and comes upon "hundreds of cats, thousands of cats, millions and billions and trillions of cats." They are all so beautiful that he can't possibly choose just one and ends up bringing all of them home. Then the trouble begins. I think my favorite line in the whole book is, "And they began to quarell."
This is just a wonderful book! If you have not ever read it, please do! And you will find out what really makes a pretty cat.
Wildlife
bear at night
James had a really good time hunting bear and was able to get one! We made a whole bunch of breakfast sausage out of it, and it is really really good! We all like it. Here is a picture of the skin.
and a closer look at the claws!
Monday, October 20, 2008
The Queen of Monopoly and JOY
We usually play while Naomi and Noah are napping. Ellen and I work together until she loses interest, and then I'm on my own. The funny thing is that Anne almost always wins. I think there have only been two times that she hasn't won. James won those two times. Yesterday she did it again. I think the best thing about it is the good sportsmanship we are all gaining. Plus it is really nice to do something fun as a family. We all look forward to it.
One other thought. I heard a neat thought in Primary yesterday. One of the talks was given by one of the 11 year old girls. She was talking about serving others and the happiness it brings us. She came up with this thought for JOY. J is for Jesus, O is for Others, Y is for yourself. That is the way to joy. Think first of Jesus, then others, then ourselves. Neat, huh?
Friday, October 17, 2008
Memories
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
What a Night!
Since I'm thinking about sleep I thought I'd post this picture of Ellen. I put her down for a nap one day, in her bed. When I came in half an hour later to put away some laundry I found her like this. Sleeping in the stuffed animal box!
My Worst Fear!
I do not live near water and hardly ever visit, so really this fear of mine shouldn't be a problem, right? Wrong. I am married to someone who LOVES the water. He was on the swim team in high school. He absolutely loves the ocean and can't wait to visit again. His dream vacation would be a week of pure snorkeling. The next problem? Our 5 children. How do I teach them that water is OK? This is very difficult. Every summer my children take swimming lessons. It is good for them, I know. And it is very good for me because I see that after two weeks of bobbing and floating and blowing bubbles and jumping off the diving board, my children are all alive! They are learning to enjoy the water and logically I am very happy about that. Still I can't help but completely tense up every time I see one of them go under the water. So far so good, I guess. My next concern, though, is what do I do when I don't have a little baby or toddler as an excuse to stay out of the deep end? Or out of the water all together? Yikes!!
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
What is the definition of arboretum?
Monday, October 13, 2008
Tuesdays With Morrie
Morrie’s wisdom and insights are just amazing. Some of them are almost revolutionary, and yet they’re not. I particularly enjoyed his thoughts on aging. They made me think of President Monson’s talk last week, Finding Joy in the Journey.
“Mitch, it is impossible for the old not to envy the young. But the issue is to accept who you are and revel in that. This is your time to be in your thirties. I had my time to be in my thirties, and now is my time to be seventy-eight. You have to find what’s good and true and beautiful in your life as it is now. Looking back makes you competitive. And, age is not a competitive issue. The truth is, part of me is every age. I’m a three-year-old, I’m a five-year-old, I’m a thirty-seven-year-old, I’m a fifty-year-old. I’ve been through all of them, and I know what it’s like. I delight in being a child when it’s appropriate to be a child. I delight in being a wise old man when it’s appropriate to be a wise old man. Think of all I can be! I am every age, up to my own. Do you understand? How can I be envious of where you are—when I’ve been there myself?”
One of the other things I really like about this book was learning Morrie’s and Mitch’s stories as the book went along. They were very poignant and relevant to the topics Mitch and Morrie were discussing. What a life Morrie had! He must have been a truly remarkable person to have come from such difficult circumstances and to decide to make his life into something completely different. I would love to know more about his step-mother. I also loved Morrie’s comments on family. I feel so blessed to have the family I do. Both the one I was born into, and the one I married into. All of you are very dear to me!
“The fact is, there is no foundation, to secure ground, upon which people may stand today if it isn’t the family. It’s become quite clear to me as I’ve been sick. If you don’t have the support and love and caring and concern you get from a family, you don’t have much at all. Love is so supremely important. As our great poet Auden said, ‘Love each other or perish.’” “This is part of what a family is about, not just love, but letting other know there’s someone who is watching out for them. It’s what I missed so much when my mother died—what I call your ‘spiritual security’—knowing that your family will be there watching our for you. Nothing else will give you that. Not money. Not fame. Not work.”
Friday, October 10, 2008
The Scarlet Pimpernel
I was stuck, very stuck, on The Scarlet Pimpernel by Baroness Emmuska Orczy. Two different people on two different occasions had recommended it to me. Not only did they recommend it, they practically raved about it. So this summer, when I came across a copy of it for only 75 cents, I quickly bought thinking this would be a great read. I started it back in July. I read the first three chapters, and had no desire to pick it up again. I was having a hard time with the language of the story and I was actually quite bored with it. As far as I could tell the book was about some snooty French girl, Marguerite Blakeny, who was married to simple Sir Percy Blakeny and only cared about herself and her brother. Nope, she didn’t even care about her husband. Then there was the main character, the mysterious Scarlet Pimpernel. He was mentioned and explained as a great hero saving countless lives as the people of France went about killing all the noble men and women they could. I was a little interested in him, but didn’t seem to be getting much. So I left the book on my bookshelf for the next two months and did finally pick it up again to read another chapter. Yep, still bored with it. Back to the shelf it went.
Finally about a week ago I decided that I had to read that book. I couldn’t read anything else until I did. I have read plenty of books that are quite slow going for me at the beginning but turn out to be quite enjoyable. I was hoping this would be the case again. And it was! I didn’t have to go much further to get into the real plot of the story. Once there, I was hooked. I still didn’t have much sympathy or liking for Lady Blakeny, but her husband was growing on me. The villain, Chauvelin, was very bad and very easy to dislike which made the story all the more exciting. And the Scarlet Pimpernel was finally really playing into things.
The rest of the story went very quickly and was much helped by some very interesting twists and a beautiful love story. I don’t want to say too much more except that I do really like the ending. It is one of those happy, everything gets resolved, all is well kind of endings. And I learned once again, that I really can’t judge a book by its first few chapters. This one was definitely worth the wait. I would gladly reccomend it!
Wednesday, October 8, 2008
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
Noah, the Boy
Just look at the joy on that face!
Noah is also really into balls. He even plays catch! We have a little rubber soccer ball that is just the right size for him to hold. He gets all excited when he sees it. If he is playing with it and someone sits down by him, he will throw the ball at them and wait very excitedly for them to throw the ball back. Annie taught him to play catch. She is such a good big sister!
Noah really likes being around everyone. Whenever I pick him up out of his crib he holds on to me real tight until we get out of the bedroom. Then he starts looking all over to see who else is around. He also really likes getting undressed. He gets all excited when I start unzipping or unbuttoning. He's just Noah, and he's wonderful!
Monday, October 6, 2008
Our General Conference Weekend
Friday, October 3, 2008
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
My Favorite Season
So, my favorite time of year is fall. I am very fortunate to live in a place where the seasons do change. As long as I can remember having a favorite, it has been fall. But what is it that makes it my favorite? I guess it is lots of little things all put together. I love the colors of the changing leaves, so bright and beautiful. I really enjoy hearing a nice crunch instead of a dull thud when I walk outside. When I was a kid I used to try to walk as far as I could without touching bare ground. Maybe all kids do this. In some places I would wade through the leaves and not have to pay attention to where I placed my feet. But then in other places I would have to jump or take funny sideways steps to be able to stay on a leaf. It was so much fun! It is also quite fascinating to me how some leaves slowly float down to the ground like they would really rather stay up in the air. And then other leaves suddenly come crashing down like they just can’t wait a second longer to get to the ground. Why does that happen? I’ve always wondered.
One of the very best things about fall is the cooler temperatures. I like summer and the freedom and play time and vacation time that come with it, but it is just too hot! I get grumpy when I’m hot. I just don’t like it. So when fall comes around, and things cool off enough to let me breath, I am downright cheerful! The nights start getting cold, but the days are still warm enough to enjoy the outside. It is perfect! And the house is not so hot that I don’t want to turn on the oven. Fall is baking time to me. Pies and breads and muffins and cookies and many, many other delicious things.
When fall comes I am reminded again of the amazing creation of this earth. I just sit in awe when I think of how perfectly the earth works. Everything has a place and a season, even down to the smallest particle. Everything has a purpose and function, and is beautiful at the same time. Fall is also a time of gratitude to me. Maybe because I grew up celebrating Thanksgiving every fall. But it makes sense to me to look back over the year that is ending and see just how blessed I have been. There is a closet door in our living room and every fall I cover it with paper. At the top in big colorful letters I write, “We are thankful for …”. Then over the next weeks we write or draw whatever comes to mind. By the time Thanksgiving comes it is quite full and we do feel very blessed. I think Doctrine and Covenants 136:28 best explains the way I feel in the fall. “If thou art merry, praise the Lord with singing, with music, with dancing, and with a prayer of praise and thanksgiving.”