Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Happy Birthday Noah

I can't believe it has come, but today is Noah's first birthday! What a joyful year it has been, and what a blessing he is to all of us.
In honor of his 12 months of life here are 12 things we love about Noah:
1. He smiles at everyone, even if it is a shy smile sometimes.
2. He loves to play catch.
3. He laughs when I pour water on his head in the bathtub.
4. He is a snuggler.
5. He is our earliest walker at 11 months old.
6. He loves playing with the girls in their playhouse.
7. No matter what is in his crib when I put him to bed at night, Noah will dump everything onto the floor before he goes to sleep.
8. He waves his arm around when he hears music. He's already learning how to direct music.
9. He gives great kisses.
10. He eats everything.
11. He loves to climb on Daddy or Stephen or anybody else he finds lying on the floor.
12. Whenever someone comes into the room, Noah will say "mon" (c'mon) and gesture for them to come to him.

I am Grateful



Indeed I am very grateful; grateful for my husband and my children. I’m grateful for my family, my parents, brothers and sisters, grandparents, aunts and uncles, cousins. And that includes my family and my husband’s family. I’m grateful for this land I live in, and I’m grateful to have a home where I can be safe and warm. I’m grateful for my friends and neighbors and my children’s friends. I’m grateful for this earth and all it gives and provides for me. I’m grateful for education and the many things I have learned in and out of school. I’m grateful for technology and inventions and the wonders of the time we live in now. There are so many things I am very grateful for. I can’t help but think of more and more as I list them. And that brings me joy! One of my favorite songs is Count Your Blessings by Irving Berlin. It has a great message, and listening to Bing Crosby sing it is quite wonderful. (I also enjoy the Mormon Tabernacle Choir version.) The song says:

When I'm worried and I can't sleep
I count my blessings instead of sheep
And I fall asleep counting my blessings
When my bankroll is getting small
I think of when I had none at all
And I fall asleep counting my blessings

I think about a nursery and I picture curly heads
And one by one I count them as they slumber in their beds
If you're worried and you can't sleep
Just count your blessings instead of sheep
And you'll fall asleep counting your blessings

I think about a nursery and I picture curly heads
And one by one I count them as they slumber in their beds
If you're worried and you can't sleep
Just count your blessings instead of sheep
And you'll fall asleep counting your blessings

Yes I am very grateful. And as my husband so wisely said, “Being grateful implies that you are grateful to someone.” I am grateful to my Father in Heaven. All that I have been given has come from Him. He even sent His Son to die for me so that I will have the opportunity of eternal life with my Heavenly Father and my family. What more could I possibly want? And so to express my thanks and joy and praise I turn again to a song, one of my very favorite hymns: Praise to the Lord, the Almighty (text by Joachim Neander, 1650–1680; trans. by Catherine Winkworth, 1829–1878. Music: From Stralsund Gesangbuch, 1665; arr. by William S. Bennett, 1816–1875, and Otto Goldschmidt, 1829–1907)

Praise to the Lord, the Almighty, the King of creation!
O my soul, praise him, for he is thy health and salvation!
Join the great throng,
Psaltery, organ and song,
Sounding in glad adoration!

Praise to the Lord! Over all things he gloriously reigneth.
Borne as on eagle wings, safely his Saints he sustaineth.
Hast thou not seen
How all thou needest hath been
Granted in what he ordaineth?

Praise to the Lord, who doth prosper thy way and defend thee.
Surely his goodness and mercy shall ever attend thee.
Ponder anew
What the Almighty can do,
Who with his love doth befriend thee.

Praise to the Lord! Oh, let all that is in me adore him!
All that hath breath, join with Abraham’s seed to adore him!
Let the “amen”
Sum all our praises again,
Now as we worship before him.

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Something was Hilarious!

Ellen's friend Jacob was eating lunch with us one day and they started laughing about something. I think it was the word "overalls." Pretty funny, right? Well they thought so. They started laughing and laughing, and it just got funnier! How nice it was to hear such happy sounds.






Monday, November 24, 2008

Contrary Mary


Today Naomi and I read Contrary Mary by Anita Jeram, the illustrator of one of our favorite books, Guess How Much I Love You. Contrary Mary is the story of a young mouse who wakes up one day feeling contrary and so she puts her cap on backwards and her shoes on the wrong feet. All day she goes along doing things upside down or backwards or opposite. That night her mom gets an idea. She tucks Mary in upside down, turns on her light, kisses her toes, and says, "Good Morning!" Then snuggles with Mary and asks, "Do you love me, Contrary Mary?" I'm sure you can guess what the answer is. A great big "No!" along with a hug and kiss.
We really enjoyed this book. It is quite short, and has very nice illustrations. And it's funny! I think we'll have to bring this book out when we are having a contrary day. Maybe it will remind me to laugh and have a good contrary day!

Saturday, November 22, 2008

Hip-baby

Warning: This is a really long post! I mostly put it all in so that I won't forget any of this. Now that you've been warned ... read on.
On Monday we went to Shriner's Hospital for Ellen's checkup. It's been just over a year since we were last there. Her hip looks so good now that she doesn't have to go back for two whole years. She'll be 6! We were very excited. Here is her x-ray from Monday.



This is her right hip, which has always been normal.



This is her left hip. It looks just like the other one doesn't it?


I wish I could show you her first x-ray. I first saw it on our first visit to Shriner's on Feb. 10, 2006. (Naomi was born on Feb 18.) I can't describe how I felt when I first saw it. I'll try to show what it looked like in the picture below: The part at the bottom of the arrow (the head of the femur) was not in Ellen's hip socket like it is in this x-ray. It was clear up where the point of the arrow is. Yikes, huh? It is called hip dysplaysia.

The solution to this problem was for the doctor to pull Ellen's leg down into the socket while she was asleep, of course. Then she would be put in a spica cast for 3 to 4 months to hold the bone in place and help the socket develop. This procedure is called a closed reduction. It had to be done soon though, because as she got older her tendons would get tighter and not allow the bone to be pulled down. At almost 20 months, she was actually quite old to be treated for this. Most cases of hip dysplaysia are caught and treated at birth, and most of them only have hips that slide around, not hips that are completely dislocated. Feb. 10 was a Friday, and Dr. Baird advised doing the closed reduction on Monday the 13th. He was afraid that if we waited till after the baby was born, it would be too long. He also felt that it would be better if I didn't have a brand new baby when Ellen was waking up from the anesthesia and trying to adjust to being stuck in a cast. We scheduled Ellen to be admitted on Monday morning at 6 am, but Dr Baird said to go home and talk to James about it and to really think it over, and if we decided not to do it to just call and let them know. We decided to go ahead. On Sunday night our home teachers came over and helped James give Ellen a blessing. One of them, Brother Stucki, also brought some balloons. This is Ellen playing with the fish balloon Brother Stucki made for her.


Very early the next morning, Ellen and I went back to Spokane. The closed reduction went really well. Waking up in a spica cast was not so good though. I had never seen Ellen so upset. I was trying to stay calm so that I could comfort her, but I could not keep myself from crying. I just kept thinking, "What have I done to my baby?" Ellen did calm down, and actually slept quite a bit that day. They put the cast on her while she was still under the anesthesia, but didn't put the colored layer on till later. She chose pink! This picture was taken three days later.



Every six weeks we had to go back so that Ellen could get a new cast because she was growing. She would have outgrown the original cast. They always put new cast on her while she was under anesthesia. It was also nice to get a new cast because Ellen was wearing them out. She learned to really get around in a spica! She could crawl, roll over, ride a scooter, and eventually even stand up!











James also built her a special table and chair for her to sit in so she could play with toys a little easier.



After 16 weeks, the cast came off on June 12, 2006, just 2 weeks before her 2nd birthday. It was wonderful!!! This is Ellen learning to walk again after she was out of the cast.






Once the cast was gone, she did still have to wear a brace (a rhino brace manufactured by Seattle Seat). At first it was for 20 hours a day, but then after the first 4 months she only had to wear it at night. She wore it for one year. It looked pretty awkward for sleeping, but I guess she was just so used to it that she didn't have any problem sleeping.


The purpose of the brace was to keep Ellen's hip in the best position to help her socket fully develop. Normal hip sockets should be cupped like this:

Because Ellen had gone for so long without anything in her hip socket, it didn't develop quite right and was shaped like this:


For the time being, it wasn't a problem. Her hip was not going to dislocate again, but after a few years it would start slipping around, causing terrible arthritis and most likely hip replacement by the time she was 20. So she had hip surgery on July 26, 2007. A pelvic osteotomy to be more specific. Dr. Baird basically cut her pelvis and moved the bottom part down so that her socket would be shaped properly, then inserted a wedge shaped piece of donated bone into the cut. It is quite common for the bone to be secured with a pin which would later be taken out. But Dr. Baird likes to use bone cement instead. I think it is just powdered calcium that just gets absorbed into the bone. That was a relief to us, especially James as he still has his own screws in his ankle. This x-ray is from 6 weeks after the surgery. The blue line outlines the piece of new bone. If you can picture moving that bottom blue line up, closing that area, you can get an idea of what her socket looked like before the surgery.


After this surgery Ellen had to be in another spica cast, this time it was only 5 and a half weeks though. And her right leg was free from the knee down, so that was really nice. She had wanted a green cast this time, but the hospital was out of green so she chose pink again.



This cast came off on Sept. 4, 2007. And now here we are. As Dr. Baird said pretty early on in this whole thing, "Someday she could be an Olympic runner if she wants to."


Ellen with Dr. Glen Baird on Nov. 17, 2008.

One other thing about Dr. Baird. After one of our many appointments Dr. Baird caught up with us in the hall as we were leaving and said to me, "I noticed your CTR ring and wanted to tell you that I am LDS too." I cried all the way out to the car. I've never had much of a chance to talk to Dr. Baird, except about Ellen's hip. He is a very skilled doctor and surgeon and is usually surrounded by interns and residents and physician assistants. But he has always been excited about our new babies and just so kind and caring. Thank you Dr. Baird!


For more information about hip dysplaysia visit hip-baby.org. I joined the discussion group on that site and got some great ideas, like the special table, using a beanbag chair, and using a hair dryer to dry out her cast when I changed her diaper. I also got a lot of comfort from talking to other mom's whose kids and babies were going through the exact same thing Ellen was. That was a lot of help.


Noah's Kisses


Noah has learned how to give kisses and will give me one whenever I ask for one.

Friday, November 21, 2008

Stephen in the Sky

This is one of my very favorite pictures of Stephen. It was taken by my sister-in-law, Chaney, on a camping trip in the spring of 2002. We were camping in Vedauwoo, an area of National Forest between Cheyenne and Laramie. I had to scan this picture, and I'm afraid the scan is just not as good as the actual picture. It's still cute though. I love his chubby cheeks, and the sky in the background. Stephen was about 20 months old.


Saturday, November 15, 2008

Baby Noah

Ok, so this post is really about how Noah is not such a baby any more. I'm feeling a little sad about this! Look at this picture.







This is Noah's hair on our bathroom counter! He got his first hair cut tonight.


What do you think?



Here's a better view. And those are the red jammies he is wearing.





Just in case a first hair cut isn't enough evidence that Noah is not such a baby any more, just take a look at this little video. It is a little dark, but it get's the idea across.




Noah hardly crawls at all anymore. He still falls down a lot, but he really prefers walking now.

What is happening to my baby?

Noah on the day he was blessed.

Friday, November 14, 2008

Happy Birthday Grandpa!


Tomarrow is my Grandpa's 80th birthday. This is him holding Ellen when she was about 6 months old. What a wonderful Grandpa he is too!

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Make Way For Ducklings


Make Way For Ducklings, by Robert McCloskey, was my favorite book as a kid, and is still is one of my favorites. It is a classic. I think that everyone has probably read this book and we do read it about once a week, so I had to put something up about it. It was originally published in 1941 and recieved the Caldecott Medal in 1942. The illustrations are wonderful! They are all one color, brown, but so beautiful and full of detail! Here is one of my favorites.


The story takes place in Boston, much of it in the Public Garden, as Mr. and Mrs. Mallard search for and finally locate the perfect place to raise ducklings. There really is a Public Garden in Boston and it really does have Swan Boats. There is even a bronze sculpture of Mrs. Mallard and her eight ducklings. If I ever make it to Boston, you can be sure I will visit the Public Garden.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Hooray for Naomi!

Naomi is officially potty trained! Here she is holding her brand new package of princess underwear. Only one child in diapers. I almost don't know what to do with myself.

Giving


I am so excited to write about giving! What a happy topic. I have been so blessed by so many people. I’m not really sure where to start. My Mom is the first person that comes to mind. When I was in high school, I came home one day, tired and dreading my homework, and went into my room to find my bed made and my room straightened. Two things that I hardly ever did as a kid. There was a note on my pillow from my Mom, saying how proud she was of me. That changed my whole day, and my whole week!

When I went away to college I moved in with my grandparents on my Dad’s side. My Mom’s parents just lived half a mile down the road, so I got to see plenty of them as well. I feel a little guilty now that I look back on that time. My grandparents and a couple of aunts and uncles did so much to take care of me, and I am afraid that I did not act very grateful at the time. I see now that I would have had a really difficult time without all of them. In fact I was probably a little spoiled. My grandma even packed a lunch for me every day so that I wouldn’t have to spend money on lunch! My grandparents and aunts and uncles gave to me in very big ways: feeding me, housing me, letting me borrow a vehicle if mine wasn’t running, fixing my car when it wasn’t running, driving me from Rexburg to Salt Lake so that I could fly home for Christmas, letting me cry on their shoulder when I needed to.

Other people outside of my family have given to me in big ways too. Almost exactly a year ago I was very pregnant with my 5th baby. Two wonderful ladies from church, my visiting teachers, took great care of me. They watched my kids while I went to appointments, they cleaned my house, they fed us when the baby was born, and watched my kids some more so that I could get a little sleep. When I was a week away from my due date, I was on my way to the hospital to get some of the paperwork out of the way early. My two youngest girls were with me. We got into a little car accident, and thankfully everyone was just fine, but our van was not drivable. Just as a police officer was asking me if there was anyone I could call to come get me, up walked a dear sister from church. She happened to drive by and see me, and also happened to have two extra car seats in her vehicle. She waited there with me till everything was taken care of, and then took us all home. I’m sure she had other things to do that day, but she put them off so that she could help me.

Some people give to me in other ways, and those experiences are very precious to me too. Grocery shopping with little children can be a little unnerving and stressful at times. Every now and then, though, a complete stranger will say to me, “Oh, you have such a beautiful family!” Somehow that comment makes shopping a little easier. Another day I went shopping at Winco with all 5 of my kids, ages 7 and under at the time. I really like Winco except that you have to bag your own groceries. So on this particular day I was trying so hard to get the groceries bagged and put in the cart and keep everyone else happy at the same time. It was not going well. The baby was crying, and everyone else was either fighting with someone or trying to run away. Just then two teenage girls who were with their parents in the next line over came over and began bagging groceries. They didn’t ask if I needed help, they just did it. They got everything in the cart and then pushed it out to the parking lot and put everything in the van for me. I was cheered up, and my cheerfulness spread to the kids. The rest of our day went quite well, but I’m not sure it would have without the help of those two girls.

I could go on and on about the many ways people have given to me. There are way too many to name or count. I was grateful for them when they happened, and I am grateful for them now but for a slightly different reason. This morning as I was walking home from dropping kids off at school, it started to rain pretty hard. I was not prepared for this. But I had been thinking about this post and all the ways I have been blessed by others, and I was so happy. I was soaking wet and still had half a mile to walk, but I was so thankful that I could not be grumpy about the rain. (Noah was covered and dry. Somehow I was prepared to keep him dry.) What I’m saying is that all those people who have given to me are really still giving to me. Just thinking of them makes me happy. Those people and the memories I have remind me that most of all my Heavenly Father loves me. As President Spencer W. Kimball said, “God does notice us, and he watches over us. But it is usually through another person that he meets our needs. Therefore, it is vital that we serve each other in the kingdom.” I just saw that I am using the same quote as Cocoa, but that's ok. It's worth reading a time or two or more.

Friday, November 7, 2008

5$ Well Spent

I know, it's a silly picture. But I was very grateful for this 5$ poncho today. The rainy season has arrived here in Moscow. I know in other parts of Idaho there is snow. But here in the NORTH, we get rain, rain, and more rain for about a month straight before we will get snow. If this winter is like last year the snow will stay all winter, but if it is like the previous two winters, the snow will melt within a day or two and we will get more rain with some snow scattered throughout the winter. Autumn, Uncle Jim, you have Moscow experience. What were your winters like when you were here? For today, we have rain. Cold rain, at that. And we walked to school, so I am very glad I have that lovely yellow poncho at left. Anne has a bright pink one, and Stephen has a bright blue one, although I couldn't convince him to wear it today. He rode his bike to school though, so he wouldn't have gotten quite as wet as Annie or I did. And Noah came with us. He got to ride in a nice covered stroller I borrowed from my neighbor. He was nice and dry and warm. Hooray! Now, I hope what I'm going to say doesn't sound bad, but I am really very grateful that we had to get to school in the rain today. I want the kids to know that even if something is a little difficult and a little uncomfortable they can do it. I'm afraid that my kids are going to have a little harder time at life than I have had, and I want them to know that they can do things. Maybe life will be a breeze for them. I don't really know, but I want them to be ready for anything. Already, I do know that they will have to work harder in school than I did. But I think they are up for it. They already know so much, and learn so well and so quickly. They are just wonderful kids, and I'm sure that the Lord will watch over them in whatever does come in their futures.

On to lighter subjects! Since my shoes were not covered by my wonderful poncho, they are now stuffed with newspaper drying by the heater. And thanks to James and Anne going to the grocery store last night, I don't have to go anywhere today!!!! I get to stay home and fold laundry (always) and make chocolate chip cookies. Any special occasion, you might ask? Well, yes. The missionaries are coming over tonight to talk to us about a friend of Stephen's from school. His name is Marshall. Well, Marshall and his older brother, Michael, have been taking the discussions for a while with their mom and they are thinking about baptism. The boys are. Not their mom for now. She seems to be ok with them coming to church (they've only come once so far) as long as there is someone she trusts there with them. But she doesn't know anyone in the ward. (I hope I am getting this story right. This is what I got from James who actually talked to the missionaries.) I think that this is where we come in. I did meet Marshall's Mom once, but it was at Marshall's birthday party and there were lots of other parents and kids, so I don't know that she would really remember me. We'll get more details tonight. I sure am glad that Stephen and Marshall are friends!

Naomi's Ear

This is Naomi at about 3 months old. Her ear would fold down like that whenever I fed her and would stick for about five minutes. I had never seen another baby's ear do that so I had to take a picture.

Thursday, November 6, 2008

I Didn't Plan To Be A Witch

I recently read I Didn’t Plan To Be A Witch by Linda Eyre. I read it because, like the title says, I did not ever plan to be a witch. I always thought of myself as a pretty nice person until I had kids and started losing my patience with them. Where did that grumpy side of me come from?

I had read little bits of this book a few years ago, but now finally read the whole thing. I really enjoyed it, especially the parts where she describes some crazy days at her house. Maybe she exaggerates, and maybe it’s because she has nine kids and I only have five, but they were way crazier than anything we have ever experienced here. That made me feel a little better about things. There are 31 chapters and each is written on a certain topic. Each chapter is pretty short and can be read independently so that was pretty nice. Since there is so much in this book, I thought I’d just write about a few specific chapters.

Chapter 3. The Key: Simplify, Simplify, Simplify. This chapter lists and explains 16 ways to simplify your life. Some that really struck me are: Set time limits for routine tasks. I used to have to do this when I was in school to get my work done, and I find it still works wonders for me. Encourage older children to take responsibility for younger children. This one is so great! Stephen and Anne are really good at getting shoes on littler people and getting their teeth brushed. And Naomi goes to the bathroom much more willingly when Ellen takes her as opposed to me! Use the toughest times to realize that the normal times aren’t so bad. Borrow four more children for a week and learn that your usual routine isn’t as difficult as you thought. I have to laugh about this one because about two days after I read it we ended up having four extra children stay at our house for about 24 hours while their mom had a baby. Life did seem pretty relaxed the next day!

Chapter 15. The Kid Is Always Right. In this chapter she talks about hearing a speaker at a business conference on the subject of “the customer is always right.” When asked what happens if the customer really is wrong the speaker said, “The customer is never wrong! Neither party is right or wrong. You have to try to look at the problem through the other person’s eyes. You will find that by looking at the problem from his perspective, although it may not be correct from your perspective, you can see why he thinks he is right. It’s often hard to take, but a great manager can always say: ‘I see your point. I understand what you mean. You’re right. Let’s work this out.’” Then she explains that the same thing can apply to our relationships with our children. She says, “Too often, we become authoritarian parents who think we are always right. When it comes to a conflict, we don’t bother to give the same courtesy to our children as we would to a brother or friend.” That kind of stung me because I realized that I do that all the time! I was feeling so terrible and then get to this part. “After all, one conflict settled with sympathy and understanding out of every ten conflicts that occur is better than none, especially if we understand each child often enough to let him know that we really care.” Life is all about trying to do a little better each day, not about being perfect the very next day. So … I will try to keep this in mind. The Kid Is Always Right!

Chapters 28 - 29. Enjoying the Present – No Matter How Bad It Is! and Keep Looking Up. These two chapters go together in my mind because they remind me of a couple of talks from this last General Conference. Of course, the first is President Monson’s talk, Finding Joy in the Journey. The other is Elder Bednar’s talk, Pray Always. In chapter 28 Linda Eyre says, “Gratitude can help us enjoy the present.” When thinking of all the good things there are in life, and all the blessings I have been given, and thinking of all the wonderful times I am having with my children right now, how can I help but be happy? And when I pray to my loving Heavenly Father who has given all this happiness to me, and I thank Him for it, how can I not be full of joy?

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

The New Sheriff

Just in case anybody reading this hasn't heard yet...


Last night my Dad, Len Humphries Jr., was elected Sheriff of Fremont County! We are all so excited around here. It was quite an election, (including a pretty tough write-in campain by the current Sheriff) but Dad came out on top. There was a little confusion at our house as to what Grandpa was really running for. Anne asked a couple of weeks ago, "Is Grandpa the President yet?" Ellen asked the same question yesterday.


Many congratulations to you, Dad! We are so proud of you!

Monday, November 3, 2008

Halloween and Then Some

Ellen the princess, Naomi the froggy, Stephen the mummy, and Anne the fairy.
(Naomi doesn't look very dressed up because most of her costume was lost until about an hour after the kids went trick or treating. Oh well!)

Our jack-o-lanterns.

Noah is up to about 6 steps in a row. And he loves to just stand up all over the place.