Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Happy Birthday Noah

I can't believe it has come, but today is Noah's first birthday! What a joyful year it has been, and what a blessing he is to all of us.
In honor of his 12 months of life here are 12 things we love about Noah:
1. He smiles at everyone, even if it is a shy smile sometimes.
2. He loves to play catch.
3. He laughs when I pour water on his head in the bathtub.
4. He is a snuggler.
5. He is our earliest walker at 11 months old.
6. He loves playing with the girls in their playhouse.
7. No matter what is in his crib when I put him to bed at night, Noah will dump everything onto the floor before he goes to sleep.
8. He waves his arm around when he hears music. He's already learning how to direct music.
9. He gives great kisses.
10. He eats everything.
11. He loves to climb on Daddy or Stephen or anybody else he finds lying on the floor.
12. Whenever someone comes into the room, Noah will say "mon" (c'mon) and gesture for them to come to him.

I am Grateful



Indeed I am very grateful; grateful for my husband and my children. I’m grateful for my family, my parents, brothers and sisters, grandparents, aunts and uncles, cousins. And that includes my family and my husband’s family. I’m grateful for this land I live in, and I’m grateful to have a home where I can be safe and warm. I’m grateful for my friends and neighbors and my children’s friends. I’m grateful for this earth and all it gives and provides for me. I’m grateful for education and the many things I have learned in and out of school. I’m grateful for technology and inventions and the wonders of the time we live in now. There are so many things I am very grateful for. I can’t help but think of more and more as I list them. And that brings me joy! One of my favorite songs is Count Your Blessings by Irving Berlin. It has a great message, and listening to Bing Crosby sing it is quite wonderful. (I also enjoy the Mormon Tabernacle Choir version.) The song says:

When I'm worried and I can't sleep
I count my blessings instead of sheep
And I fall asleep counting my blessings
When my bankroll is getting small
I think of when I had none at all
And I fall asleep counting my blessings

I think about a nursery and I picture curly heads
And one by one I count them as they slumber in their beds
If you're worried and you can't sleep
Just count your blessings instead of sheep
And you'll fall asleep counting your blessings

I think about a nursery and I picture curly heads
And one by one I count them as they slumber in their beds
If you're worried and you can't sleep
Just count your blessings instead of sheep
And you'll fall asleep counting your blessings

Yes I am very grateful. And as my husband so wisely said, “Being grateful implies that you are grateful to someone.” I am grateful to my Father in Heaven. All that I have been given has come from Him. He even sent His Son to die for me so that I will have the opportunity of eternal life with my Heavenly Father and my family. What more could I possibly want? And so to express my thanks and joy and praise I turn again to a song, one of my very favorite hymns: Praise to the Lord, the Almighty (text by Joachim Neander, 1650–1680; trans. by Catherine Winkworth, 1829–1878. Music: From Stralsund Gesangbuch, 1665; arr. by William S. Bennett, 1816–1875, and Otto Goldschmidt, 1829–1907)

Praise to the Lord, the Almighty, the King of creation!
O my soul, praise him, for he is thy health and salvation!
Join the great throng,
Psaltery, organ and song,
Sounding in glad adoration!

Praise to the Lord! Over all things he gloriously reigneth.
Borne as on eagle wings, safely his Saints he sustaineth.
Hast thou not seen
How all thou needest hath been
Granted in what he ordaineth?

Praise to the Lord, who doth prosper thy way and defend thee.
Surely his goodness and mercy shall ever attend thee.
Ponder anew
What the Almighty can do,
Who with his love doth befriend thee.

Praise to the Lord! Oh, let all that is in me adore him!
All that hath breath, join with Abraham’s seed to adore him!
Let the “amen”
Sum all our praises again,
Now as we worship before him.

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Something was Hilarious!

Ellen's friend Jacob was eating lunch with us one day and they started laughing about something. I think it was the word "overalls." Pretty funny, right? Well they thought so. They started laughing and laughing, and it just got funnier! How nice it was to hear such happy sounds.






Monday, November 24, 2008

Contrary Mary


Today Naomi and I read Contrary Mary by Anita Jeram, the illustrator of one of our favorite books, Guess How Much I Love You. Contrary Mary is the story of a young mouse who wakes up one day feeling contrary and so she puts her cap on backwards and her shoes on the wrong feet. All day she goes along doing things upside down or backwards or opposite. That night her mom gets an idea. She tucks Mary in upside down, turns on her light, kisses her toes, and says, "Good Morning!" Then snuggles with Mary and asks, "Do you love me, Contrary Mary?" I'm sure you can guess what the answer is. A great big "No!" along with a hug and kiss.
We really enjoyed this book. It is quite short, and has very nice illustrations. And it's funny! I think we'll have to bring this book out when we are having a contrary day. Maybe it will remind me to laugh and have a good contrary day!

Saturday, November 22, 2008

Hip-baby

Warning: This is a really long post! I mostly put it all in so that I won't forget any of this. Now that you've been warned ... read on.
On Monday we went to Shriner's Hospital for Ellen's checkup. It's been just over a year since we were last there. Her hip looks so good now that she doesn't have to go back for two whole years. She'll be 6! We were very excited. Here is her x-ray from Monday.



This is her right hip, which has always been normal.



This is her left hip. It looks just like the other one doesn't it?


I wish I could show you her first x-ray. I first saw it on our first visit to Shriner's on Feb. 10, 2006. (Naomi was born on Feb 18.) I can't describe how I felt when I first saw it. I'll try to show what it looked like in the picture below: The part at the bottom of the arrow (the head of the femur) was not in Ellen's hip socket like it is in this x-ray. It was clear up where the point of the arrow is. Yikes, huh? It is called hip dysplaysia.

The solution to this problem was for the doctor to pull Ellen's leg down into the socket while she was asleep, of course. Then she would be put in a spica cast for 3 to 4 months to hold the bone in place and help the socket develop. This procedure is called a closed reduction. It had to be done soon though, because as she got older her tendons would get tighter and not allow the bone to be pulled down. At almost 20 months, she was actually quite old to be treated for this. Most cases of hip dysplaysia are caught and treated at birth, and most of them only have hips that slide around, not hips that are completely dislocated. Feb. 10 was a Friday, and Dr. Baird advised doing the closed reduction on Monday the 13th. He was afraid that if we waited till after the baby was born, it would be too long. He also felt that it would be better if I didn't have a brand new baby when Ellen was waking up from the anesthesia and trying to adjust to being stuck in a cast. We scheduled Ellen to be admitted on Monday morning at 6 am, but Dr Baird said to go home and talk to James about it and to really think it over, and if we decided not to do it to just call and let them know. We decided to go ahead. On Sunday night our home teachers came over and helped James give Ellen a blessing. One of them, Brother Stucki, also brought some balloons. This is Ellen playing with the fish balloon Brother Stucki made for her.


Very early the next morning, Ellen and I went back to Spokane. The closed reduction went really well. Waking up in a spica cast was not so good though. I had never seen Ellen so upset. I was trying to stay calm so that I could comfort her, but I could not keep myself from crying. I just kept thinking, "What have I done to my baby?" Ellen did calm down, and actually slept quite a bit that day. They put the cast on her while she was still under the anesthesia, but didn't put the colored layer on till later. She chose pink! This picture was taken three days later.



Every six weeks we had to go back so that Ellen could get a new cast because she was growing. She would have outgrown the original cast. They always put new cast on her while she was under anesthesia. It was also nice to get a new cast because Ellen was wearing them out. She learned to really get around in a spica! She could crawl, roll over, ride a scooter, and eventually even stand up!











James also built her a special table and chair for her to sit in so she could play with toys a little easier.



After 16 weeks, the cast came off on June 12, 2006, just 2 weeks before her 2nd birthday. It was wonderful!!! This is Ellen learning to walk again after she was out of the cast.






Once the cast was gone, she did still have to wear a brace (a rhino brace manufactured by Seattle Seat). At first it was for 20 hours a day, but then after the first 4 months she only had to wear it at night. She wore it for one year. It looked pretty awkward for sleeping, but I guess she was just so used to it that she didn't have any problem sleeping.


The purpose of the brace was to keep Ellen's hip in the best position to help her socket fully develop. Normal hip sockets should be cupped like this:

Because Ellen had gone for so long without anything in her hip socket, it didn't develop quite right and was shaped like this:


For the time being, it wasn't a problem. Her hip was not going to dislocate again, but after a few years it would start slipping around, causing terrible arthritis and most likely hip replacement by the time she was 20. So she had hip surgery on July 26, 2007. A pelvic osteotomy to be more specific. Dr. Baird basically cut her pelvis and moved the bottom part down so that her socket would be shaped properly, then inserted a wedge shaped piece of donated bone into the cut. It is quite common for the bone to be secured with a pin which would later be taken out. But Dr. Baird likes to use bone cement instead. I think it is just powdered calcium that just gets absorbed into the bone. That was a relief to us, especially James as he still has his own screws in his ankle. This x-ray is from 6 weeks after the surgery. The blue line outlines the piece of new bone. If you can picture moving that bottom blue line up, closing that area, you can get an idea of what her socket looked like before the surgery.


After this surgery Ellen had to be in another spica cast, this time it was only 5 and a half weeks though. And her right leg was free from the knee down, so that was really nice. She had wanted a green cast this time, but the hospital was out of green so she chose pink again.



This cast came off on Sept. 4, 2007. And now here we are. As Dr. Baird said pretty early on in this whole thing, "Someday she could be an Olympic runner if she wants to."


Ellen with Dr. Glen Baird on Nov. 17, 2008.

One other thing about Dr. Baird. After one of our many appointments Dr. Baird caught up with us in the hall as we were leaving and said to me, "I noticed your CTR ring and wanted to tell you that I am LDS too." I cried all the way out to the car. I've never had much of a chance to talk to Dr. Baird, except about Ellen's hip. He is a very skilled doctor and surgeon and is usually surrounded by interns and residents and physician assistants. But he has always been excited about our new babies and just so kind and caring. Thank you Dr. Baird!


For more information about hip dysplaysia visit hip-baby.org. I joined the discussion group on that site and got some great ideas, like the special table, using a beanbag chair, and using a hair dryer to dry out her cast when I changed her diaper. I also got a lot of comfort from talking to other mom's whose kids and babies were going through the exact same thing Ellen was. That was a lot of help.


Noah's Kisses


Noah has learned how to give kisses and will give me one whenever I ask for one.

Friday, November 21, 2008

Stephen in the Sky

This is one of my very favorite pictures of Stephen. It was taken by my sister-in-law, Chaney, on a camping trip in the spring of 2002. We were camping in Vedauwoo, an area of National Forest between Cheyenne and Laramie. I had to scan this picture, and I'm afraid the scan is just not as good as the actual picture. It's still cute though. I love his chubby cheeks, and the sky in the background. Stephen was about 20 months old.


Saturday, November 15, 2008

Baby Noah

Ok, so this post is really about how Noah is not such a baby any more. I'm feeling a little sad about this! Look at this picture.







This is Noah's hair on our bathroom counter! He got his first hair cut tonight.


What do you think?



Here's a better view. And those are the red jammies he is wearing.





Just in case a first hair cut isn't enough evidence that Noah is not such a baby any more, just take a look at this little video. It is a little dark, but it get's the idea across.




Noah hardly crawls at all anymore. He still falls down a lot, but he really prefers walking now.

What is happening to my baby?

Noah on the day he was blessed.

Friday, November 14, 2008

Happy Birthday Grandpa!


Tomarrow is my Grandpa's 80th birthday. This is him holding Ellen when she was about 6 months old. What a wonderful Grandpa he is too!

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Make Way For Ducklings


Make Way For Ducklings, by Robert McCloskey, was my favorite book as a kid, and is still is one of my favorites. It is a classic. I think that everyone has probably read this book and we do read it about once a week, so I had to put something up about it. It was originally published in 1941 and recieved the Caldecott Medal in 1942. The illustrations are wonderful! They are all one color, brown, but so beautiful and full of detail! Here is one of my favorites.


The story takes place in Boston, much of it in the Public Garden, as Mr. and Mrs. Mallard search for and finally locate the perfect place to raise ducklings. There really is a Public Garden in Boston and it really does have Swan Boats. There is even a bronze sculpture of Mrs. Mallard and her eight ducklings. If I ever make it to Boston, you can be sure I will visit the Public Garden.